Goddess of Everything and Robots (smoofy) wrote in bayareabigirls,
Goddess of Everything and Robots
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Friends? Or ...?

Hey there fello bi-bay-gals. This is kind of an embarassing thing to post in a community, but, well I wanted to ask you for some feedback/advice on something. Here's my dilemna- I have a decent amount of friends. Maybe 20 or so? But here's the thing- I'd say that 90% of them are guys. Lately I've been wondering why that's the case. Is it easier for me to meet guys? Why? Then it occurred to me- it's probably my own timidity towards women. I'm bi pretty straight down the line, but I definitely find women more attractive than men. Maybe this is why, whenever I meet a girl, it's hard for me to talk to her. But then, why would this be the case if I'm only interested in friends? Maybe I'm approaching it the wrong way? But then what is the difference between hitting on someone and showing interest in being their friend? Aren't they both, in some way, a kind of come on? Thanks in advance for your thoughts. I appreciate it.

-M
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